Choose a job carefully. We work for a good life... if there is no such a life after we start working, there is no use of such a job.

I believe that we work for a good life... if there is no such a life after we start working, there is no use of such a job/work.
People don't remain what they are before work. Life changes. Men change. Women change. A great amount of mental and physical energy is spent during work and after that one often fails to cope up with the things are they were before.
There have been break ups, divorces, strained relationships, extra-marital affairs and many other unaccounted problems after one jumps into a job.
One should choose a job very carefully. Take the work that interests you, else, you won't justify with you and your family. If you love that work, you will get happiness out of it and you can perform better.
If you get a job you never wanted, then your life will unfold the events you had never even thought of.
I know many women who work as reporters, editors, advocates and other senior positions, their married life is the worst.

Now, most of the people don't seek for a bride who is a lawyer. Many lives are destroyed everyday when boy keeps calling his girl or the girl needs her man but they are busy in their jobs. How to maintain a balance without any guidance
Why doesn't anybody tell before the outcomes of a tedious job?
Please leave me a comment if you agree.